1.Accept the differences, embrace what you have in common 2. Allow your partner the space for themselves 3. Be nice 4. You want to do what 5. Be the first to say sorry 6. Go that extra step in trying to please them 7. Always have someone, or something- that is please to see you 8. Know when to listen when to act 9. Have a passion for your life together 10. Make sure your love making is making love 11. Keep talking 12. Respect privacy 13. Check you both have the same shared goals 14. Treat your partner better than your best friend 15. Contentment /happiness is a high aim 16. You don’t both have the same rules